Tantric Touch Body-work~ Inviting Intimacy...
Being held lovingly, with deep presence is probably the nearest we can get to an unambiguous direct experience of love.
One principle underpins all of my Tantric Touch~ session work, that of being not doing. Freed from the confines that esoteric interpretations place upon other somatic and spiritual paths, freed from any intention to heal or fix that can accompany bodywork, Tantric Touch~ is a new way of being with others in the interplay of breath, movement and stillness. Once you fully realise that I am holding you without any intention, you may find yourself surrendering deeply into being, perhaps for the first time.
My bodywork incorporates Tantsu (Tantric Shiatsu), and is a relaxing and stress relieving bodywork practice that can be received in a therapeutic context, or for enjoyment and connection. A session includes whole body holding (Tantsu cradles), passive stretching, shiatsu pressure, massage techniques, contact of the energetic body, spontaneous movement and non-verbal communication. Tantsu is an opportunity to relax into non-sexual, safe intimate contact. Tantsu's "cradles," positions in which our whole body comfortably holds and moves with the receiver's body, create a sensation of deep containment in which it is safe to relax and open to a new state of wellness.
Benefits include: Breaks down and releases body armouring - Relaxes deep conditioning, patterning and trauma in the body - Cultivates a deep connection within - Balancing the nervous system, which harmonises all of the body's vital processes - Increases immune system functioning - Creates a positive environment for the body's own healing process - Promotes deeper breathing - Relaxes muscular tension - Relaxes lower back and neck tension - Encourages healthy circulation of blood - Helps to detoxify the body of accumulated toxins by encouraging movement of lymph fluid - Relieves pre-menstrual tension - Increases vital energy - Promotes deep and restful sleep - Creates a flow of energy that balances anxiety and insomnia - Provides a restful support for individuals in recovery from accident or surgery or during treatment for chronic illnesses - Relieves mental tension and fatigue - Promotes a healthy emotional response to stressful situations - Promotes a feeling of being held and deeply nurtured.
"The way toward each other is through our bodies. Words are the longest distance you can travel, so complex and hazardous you lose your direction" ~Jeni Couzyn
Sacred spot refers to both the G-spot in women and the prostate in men. Though the sacred spot was written about in ancient sacred sexual scriptures, the G-spot is named after a German gynecologist. In sex educator circles it has been said that "Women's response to direct stimulation of the G-spot is identical to the response of males when their prostate is stimulated...the similarities are so striking". There is a big buzz about the G-spot in pop culture and the media. One issue that is rarely discussed is sacred spot stagnation. The soft tissue of this area is sensitive toward any type of trauma, whether physical, emotional, mental or spiritual. In the absence of love and nurturing, the surrounding muscles harden, energy stagnates and body armouring forms. Tears that have not been cried out loud are silently frozen in the sex centre.
Body armouring is another term for stuck emotion and unprocessed trauma that is lodged in the body. Just as chronic tension can show up in our backs, and stress shows up in our neck and shoulder muscles, women somatise stress and trauma in their yonis, which can show up as numbness or pain during sex and often more serious disease and dysfunction.
Increasing numbers of men over the age of fifty suffer from enlarged prostates, which causes painful or difficult urination, erection and ejaculation problems. A sacred spot massage directly affects the root chakra, and therefore is an opportunity for men to release huge amounts of tension and fear that are often at the core of lower-tract cancer and other diseases and ailments. This body-work also clears blocks and opens a channel to receive a flow of energetic support from the earth.
Sacred spot massage can reactivate and reclaim this often neglected area in both men and women. For some, Sacred Spot Massage is uncomfortable or painful; for others, it can be ecstatic. This work is designed specifically to peel away the layers of armouring. Each time this ritual is repeated, it dissolves another layer of armouring. The more this work is done, the more vital and alive your entire sexual system becomes. And, eventually one's experience evolves from a place of healing to a place of magic.
A minimum of 2 hours is required for the Sacred Spot Ritual and can also be combined with a Tantric Massage. Please also read FAQ and Session Info. To make or discuss a booking please go to Contact Me.
Reawaken your sensual life together…or take it to the next level, learn new ways of being together, including the joys and magic of conscious, loving touch. A very safe sacred space will be created to both learn and experience conscious loving touch and Tantric breathing, to focus sexual [life force] energy throughout the whole body. With Touch Tantric training there is no goal to reach and no right way to feel. Whatever happens for you is welcome, whether that is emotional release, deep relaxation or exquisite pleasure in your body. Every session is different; each person’s response is also different.
Each session is a journey to bring your inner and outer worlds together, feeling good on the outside is an important factor in your general happiness and well-being on the inside…touch is a powerful communication tool. Conscious loving touch promotes deeper connection, intimacy, and nurturing in your relating. Move beyond your habitual ways of touching and relating with each other. Tantric Touch training includes learning some sacred ritual, which can be a beautiful part of your session together.
Regardless of your current intimacy level, if you have the desire and willingness to open yourselves to a couples session, you may benefit enormously from this new way of communication. I also cover verbal communication to ask for the touch you want. My intention is to facilitate the best possible experience, and part of this is for both of you to individually express to me what you would like to receive from a session before we meet, via email. When everyone feels safe, relaxed and connected, we are creating the ideal environment for a blissful experience. A Tantric Touch training session starts at 4 hours. Please email me in the first instance. Also see my Couples page for other types of sessions.